College students in prom dresses and suits and ties packed The Funhouse at Mr. Smalls in celebration of the Be Gay [Do Prom] drag concert in Millvale on April 14. Miss Demeanor, a sophomore acting major at Point Park University, is the host and creator of the Be Gay [Do Crime] drag concert series.

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The concert came just as a national push by conservative lawmakers to restrict drag reached Pennsylvania. Nine days earlier, state Rep. Aaron Bernstein, R-Lawrence and Butler counties, reached out to ask colleagues for support for a bill that would classify drag shows as “adult-oriented businesses,” thereby restricting where they can be held and who can attend.

The show’s organizers were motivated in part by the desire to give young adults a place and time to feel a sense of community — something that had been constrained since early 2020.

“Be Gay [Do Prom] was a fantastic opportunity to help recreate something I never got because of the COVID pandemic,” Demeanor said. 

According to drag performer Peter Pansy, Demeanor creates a welcoming, wholesome and safe environment for people under and over 21 to enjoy top-notch drag shows.

Peter Pansy performed wearing extravagant, alien-like makeup that covered his face all the way to his chest. “The overwhelming acceptance, respect and excitement everyone has for when I step out with my paint and my presentation is incredibly euphoric,” he reflected. “It just makes me feel like the creature person I wanna be.”

Dirt Dyke adjusts Andi Whorehol's prom dress backstage at the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvalle, PA, on April 14, 2023. (Photo by Amaya Lobato Rivas/PublicSource)
Dirt Dyke adjusts Andi Whorehol’s prom dress backstage at the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvalle on April 14, 2023.
Drag queen Daisy Oopsy peeks out of the backstage curtains during the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvale, PA, on April 14, 2023. (Photo by Amaya Lobato Rivas/PublicSource)
Drag queen Daisy Oopsy peeks out of the backstage curtains.
  • Peter Pansy applies his drag makeup backstage at the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvalle, PA, on April 14, 2023. (Photo by Amaya Lobato Rivas/PublicSource)
  • From left to right, Andi Whorehol, Jamie Lee Coitus, Daisy Oopsy, and Dirt Dyke pose for a photo backstage during the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvalle, PA, on April 14, 2023. (Photo by Amaya Lobato Rivas/PublicSource)
  • Lydia Kollins poses for a photo backstage at the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvalle, PA, on April 14, 2023. (Photo by Amaya Lobato Rivas/PublicSource)

(Slide 1) Peter Pansy applies his drag makeup backstage at the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvalle on April 14, 2023. (Slide 2) From left to right, Andi Whorehol, Jamie Lee Coitus, Daisy Oopsy, and Dirt Dyke pose for a photo backstage. (Slide 3) Lydia Kollins poses for a photo backstage.

People in the crowd enjoying the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvalle, PA, on April 14, 2023. (Photo by Amaya Lobato Rivas/PublicSource)
People in the crowd at the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert.
Host Miss Demeanor judges the audience during a Best Dressed contest at the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvale, PA, on April 14, 2023. The person on the far right won.(Photo by Amaya Lobato Rivas/PublicSource).
Host Miss Demeanor judges the audience during a best dressed contest.
People in the crowd.
  • Peter Pansy performs at the Be Gay Do Prom drag concert in Millvalle, PA, on April 14, 2023. (Photo by Amaya Lobato Rivas/PublicSource)

Peter Pansy performing.

Amaya Lobato-Rivas was a PublicSource photojournalism intern from January to May. She is a student at the University of Pittsburgh, majoring in media and professional communication and minoring in film and media studies. She can be reached at aml299@pitt.edu.

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Amaya Lobato-Rivas is a third-year student at the University of Pittsburgh majoring in media and professional communication and minoring in film and media studies. Originally from Trujillo Alto, Puerto...